How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 28.06.2025 11:27
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Does not procrastinate.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
What timeless pieces do you believe every wardrobe should possess?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Have you ever dealt with a Christian narcissist?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
What do men like to be given for their birthday?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Why does my sister want to have sex with me? What should I do?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Was Adam white or black (African)?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
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What I need from you?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Procrastinates a lot.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Ask yourself:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Making more friends is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
That's it for today.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.